“Emotional pain is not something that should be hidden away and never spoken about. There is truth in your pain, there is growth in your pain, but only if it’s first brought out into the open.” — Steven Aitchison There has been a rise in depression, anxiety, and death by suicides in our generation. This... Continue Reading →
If you want to go, hold on a little
“The mistake we make as humans is to think that our beauty is ordinary and our pain is unique” - Vanessa Davey - Eternal emptiness, endless loneliness , where nothing makes sense and everything is meaningless. A place where sugar loses its taste in tea or favorite food no longer moves . When “I love... Continue Reading →
Not everyone should have access to the new you
"You would have to understand how accessible I'm NOT, to really appreciate how accessible I AM to you. Everyone's access isn't guaranteed" It's been a while and I have probably said this severally this year but you know what, I have taken my time off and on and trust me, it's been worth a while.... Continue Reading →
Tough times don’t last, tough people do!
"A great man is a torch in the darkness, a beacon in superstition's night, an inspiration and a prophecy."- Robert Green - Quite often I begin my blog posts without taking a moment to acknowledge my readers, but today, I decide to be different. It's been a while and I genuinely hope that you are... Continue Reading →
Imaginary Haters!
Yes, you read the title right.Today's topic won't be too long but straight to the point. We'll talk about the haters we want so bad that we create them in our heads.I've seen too many people get into conflict with friends and family members and label them as "haters". Simply because you do not agree... Continue Reading →
The real Apology – 3 steps you’re missing
"An apology without change is just manipulation" Believe it or not, you might actually be manipulating your way out of situations and keeping "an evil circle" revolving around you. A repetition of the same, as you keep saying that you're sorry. Apologies are great and of course, apologizing softens the hearts of many in the... Continue Reading →
True love is built, not found
"Far too often we seek that which we can't find, forgetting that much of what we seek, is what we already have. We just need to mould it, into what we desire" #CoupleGoals is the order of the day! The continuous public display of affection that we see all over the place and more so,... Continue Reading →
You cannot re-invent when you haven’t invented
"A tree never grows from the branches and down to the roots, it grows from it's roots and up to the branches" It's been a while since I have written on my blog but you know, sometimes life happens. Sometimes you need to take a break to refuel and also, fill up what you have... Continue Reading →
They can’t give what they don’t have
"Don't seek advice from people who don't have what you're looking for" I remember at a time I used to depend on individuals so much that I had a friend who I would go to in every situation. Looking back, I feel that I trusted this individual more than I trusted myself which obviously is... Continue Reading →
As long as there is tomorrow there is hope
"Victoria how do you do it?" "Victoria how do you wake up every day and get the energy to keep moving?" I think these are two of the most frequent questions I get from individuals. My answer is simple, as long as there is tomorrow, there is hope! Quite too often, individuals live without an... Continue Reading →