"An apology without change is just manipulation" Believe it or not, you might actually be manipulating your way out of situations and keeping "an evil circle" revolving around you. A repetition of the same, as you keep saying that you're sorry. Apologies are great and of course, apologizing softens the hearts of many in the... Continue Reading →
A boss attracts a boss
"You cannot set standards of which you do not meet individually" If you asked me a few years back what I wanted in a man, I'd probably give you a very long list. A few years back, my ideal man, would have been God-fearing (this has always been there, coming from a God-fearing background and... Continue Reading →
3 points to consider when deciding who to keep in your life
"If you surround yourself with clowns, don't be surprised when your life resembles a circus" How boring would life be without friends, loved ones and individuals who generally support and love us for who we are? Very boring, don't you agree? However, do we just keep people around us for the sake of having individuals... Continue Reading →
Easy come, easy go
"What comes easy will not last, what lasts, does not come easy" More often than not, we desire to live life on the fast lane, get money fast, get a boyfriend/girlfriend fast, do things right there and then, not caring about who we hurt in the process or how we get it in the first... Continue Reading →
Satan, NOT TODAY!
"I can't control what people do or say against me, but I can control how I react and how I let it affect me" It’s Monday and you woke up in a very good mood, ready and to tackle the day and the week ahead. You were filled with energy, excitement, and enthusiasm over what... Continue Reading →
Sometimes trying to prove yourself is an insult
"People are always out to prove something to other people, you don't need to worry about impressing others. Prove things only to yourself." In a society where we constantly are trying to seem as if we are “living our best life”, the majority seems to feel the need to prove themselves in terms of having... Continue Reading →
Doing nothing is better than being busy doing nothing
"I am so busy doing nothing that the idea of doing anything - which as you know, always leads to something - cuts into the nothing and then forces me to have to drop everything" - Jerry Seinfeld I was casually walking down the street the other day, for a stroll, since it was the... Continue Reading →
Every Saint has a past and every sinner has a future
"We are very good lawyers for our own mistakes but very good judges for others' mistakes" Today’s post is a message of self-analysis and a message that has been on my mind for the longest time. Pondering through this topic has been hard however hopefully it hits home. We all have judged someone at one... Continue Reading →
What did I learn in 2017?
"Happy new year 2018" What is a new year without thinking and pondering over the failures and successes of the previous year? What is a new year without thinking about what you learned from the previous year? To make the new year and your life different you need to look back and meditate not only... Continue Reading →
Only dead fish go with the flow
"All you need is a plan and the courage to press on to your destination" 'Tis the season of joy and jubilation as the whole world prepares to celebrate the festive season. Whether you're in Africa, Europe, America or elsewhere, one thing we can all agree on, is that the festivities make us all excited and... Continue Reading →